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Do Our Generational Differences Divide Us?

By Lauren Kotkin, ASF

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A friend’s older cousin is a World War II veteran, a bombardier who spent 8 months in a German camp for prisoners of war. He wrote a book about his experiences, and I finished it quickly, completely taken by his detailed storytelling. The politics he sprinkled throughout? Not as much appreciated by this reader and very much in contrast to my own. But they in no way colored my enjoyment of the book, because I understand that his views are a direct result of his life experiences—and similar to many in his Traditionalist generation.

On the recent ASF webinar Multiple Generations at the Table, I was intrigued by the generational descriptions given by Danielle Oristian York at 21/64, an organization that works to bridge generational differences in philanthropy. I’d heard many before, and like Danielle, I have Gen X pride and agree with most of how Gen X is described. If the shoe fits, as they say.

But how would I serve on the same foundation board with someone like my friend’s cousin? How would we find common ground given our different paths, different generations, and different truths?

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How Do You Focus Your Giving?

By Lauren Kotkin, ASF

Lauren KotkinThere’s a phenomenon that started a few years ago in major urban areas. Perhaps you live in a city, or visited one, and experienced this. You’re walking down the street and two young people in matching t-shirts holding clipboards stand right in front of you and ask, “Do you care about kids?” They want you to say yes so you can sign up for their organization’s e-list and become a donor.

I am formerly an early childhood educator, so yes, I do care about kids. But the next question is if I have time to stop on my way to the Metro, grocery store, home, etc., to talk about a charity that raises money to help children, and even more importantly, still, is whether I will give.

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Empty Building + Creativity: Transforming Neighborhoods through Arts

By Lauren Kotkin, ASF

To some, they are sweet, gooey marshmallows. To others, they are cause for artistic inspiration. No matter how you slice it, Peeps candies are the featured subjects of the hugely popular annual diorama contest held by The Washington Post, as evidenced by the hundreds of entries each year and thousands of fans across the country.

A few years ago, I served as the Peeps Curator—or Peeps Wrangler, as others like to jest. That is, I contacted the forty-odd contest semi-finalists and finalists and invited them to display their clever, sticky creations at Artomatic, a five-week arts event in the DC-metro area.

Artomatic is the Wild West of arts events. If you can imagine—and organize—it, it can happen at Artomatic. The recipe is simple: take 1,000 visual artists and give them each a 10’ foot space to hang their artwork in an empty office building. Add performers in the evenings, workshops for kids and adults on weekends, invite the public and poof! You’ve got an arts happening. This year, Artomatic is expecting more than 75,000 people to stream in from across the region to take in a diversity of artwork, music, dance, fashion, poetry, and, of course, the Peeps dioramas.

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Throwing It All Away?

By Lauren Kotkin, ASF

My sister was born in the middle of a blizzard.

That is, my father flagged down a truck driver near their apartment in the NY suburbs to take them to the hospital—any hospital—because emergency services refused to pick them up. The driver drove them to the nearest hospital, and my sister was delivered by an unknown doctor.

The story is family lore.

Fast forward a few decades. My parents were schmoozing at a bar-mitzvah when my mother recognized a man in the crowd. She never forgets a name or a face. Sure enough, it was the doctor who delivered my sister. She said to him, “You probably don’t remember this, but…” and then introduced herself and thanked him with a smile. Continue reading

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